Well i brought my BOG team to Arab street, Cafe Le Claire (also better known as Al-majilis) last night.
Most of them have never been there before and so either they weren't used to it or they found the place really interesting. I requested to be seated at the new building instead of the old one. The best part is most of the staff at the cafe emember my name, so it was easy - service was good. And the awesome part of the night was that we got the whole floor to ourselves. About 10 people showed up and it was pleasing to see that a 20 year old girl has made everybody happy with the venue that night.
There were some who were shisha virgins and they really looked in awe when i first shisha-ed. We took virgin shots of their firsts, hilarious! Mike expert already la! His first time with Zee and me at Shiraz left him traumatized but now, fwah not bad. haha. I can't wait to post those photos up on Facebook.
We ate, talked, joked with sexual innuendos (men!), took photos, blasted the music, had dessert and laughed our night away. You would say this was different than any other corporate dinner so far. The mood was easy and the place was cosy for winding down.
End of the day, the bill was a whopping few hundred dollars. But well we had a lot of fun, didn't we. I know i did.
But the funny/saddening part is.. the whiner just didnt like seeing me happy.
- Mood:
happy
How and why the hell.
I feel really obliged to do something. To stop this.
Animals are food, yes.
But what gives you the right to treat animals with such brutality?
Isn't that unethical? Immoral?
And it makes me even more depressed thinking about it.
Thinking about how brutal humans can be.
I have this serious urge to go to China and join some activist group to stop this widespread culture.
I wish there was some group that would break in to these restaurants/farms and just.. set them free.
You torture bears for their bile, you eat monkey brains while they are still alive, you squish cats into bottles and call it a trend and
you brutally kill an animal just so you can fill your filthy stomach.
You have to watch this, the whole video.
You might cry, laugh, scream or whatever you have filled in that heart of yours.
Watch it. Spread it.
From this day onwards, my hatred for _________ people have grown to an escalated level.
i dont care if i am being racist. I know not everyone is like that, but i can never see them in the
same light, ever again. Never ever.
- Mood:
depressed
But i can do it. I'm striking out the assignments i have to do, one by one.
I hope after this whole episode, a pimple or two doesn't pop out..
All cos of the stress and all the chocolate to relieve the stress!
Okay go.
<3
Had dinner at Harry's @ Dempsey (thanks for dinner!) while admiring the expensive cars that were bought just for show. You can't possibly enjoy a luxury sports car in SG can you? Well you can, but by how much mileage? Not much. Even so, my recent enlightenment that sports cars here are mostly automatic transmission made it even more so ridiculous. Manual cars are way thrilling.
Then went to meet Moran and headed off to his NS friend's birthday at Changi SAF chalets. Me and Moran have been distant. But that night urned out pretty O-K. I had to befriend his NS mates and their gfs. They're friends seem to be a good bunch, some of them. A relief for me because a few of them ARE in committed long term relationships. Influences are great. And i like it when Moran has good friends.
Considering the fact that I find it hard to make friends with girly.. girls that night was a little strange. I just can't fanthom how a girl can scream when a cat comes her way. Or when she's surprised by something, she'll give this attention grabbing shrill. Or when she perks up her chest just so her tits are visible enough for show.
Maybe, to think that i am not one of those girls, makes it harder to befriend them.
I found myself to be pretty reserved and private these days. I'm very selective with the friends I make and who I share information on my life with. So well, i guess you'd be very privelleged if ever, I share things with you.
In the past, it was easier to befriend women than men. But now, this comes in reverse.
My best friends are an obvious exception because i've known them since forever and I can say something bitchy to them, and they can take it because they do know when or not I am kidding.
But hey, I put on my best face that night. I made friends, laughed, smiled putting aside all those reservations. I can do it when i want to. It's all about being courteous and respectful.
More often than none, you do come into place as my best friend and shoulder to cry on but sometimes, when you get a more mature perspective of your life, you tend to ignore the little things that are not worth thinking about in the first place. And i have become that person right now. I get so frustrated when the next mood swing or issue crops up. Seriously.
And these small little things are things, toddlers would do if they are having a bad day, get upset and take it out on their mommies.
Grow up, grow up wil you. National service has made men more of whiny babies than real strong men.
Where have all the good men gone? Married or taken. Bingo.
Zafirah, want to be my lesbian bestfriend a.k.a girlfriend?
I jest, baby.
And besides, the most cruel deed is to cut their fins up and throw them back into the sea to die
Okay enough of ranting, back to work.
http://www.acres.org.sg/
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WHEN SHARKS DIE, THE OCEANS DIE.
Sharks are vital to the health of the oceans.
Sharks are keystone species in the oceans. They are the tigers of the sea and they play critical roles as both predators and scavengers. For over 400 million years, they have helped maintain healthy and balanced marine ecosystems by eliminating diseased and genetically defective animals.
Collapsing Marine ecosystems.
Removing sharks will result in the collapse of the entire marine food web. It's like a big tower of jenga; you take out a key brick at the bottom and the whole thing collapses. This is because of a phenomenon called ‘Trophic Cascade'. Overfishing of sharks cascades into a sudden uprising of the species they prey on, causing an abundance of skates, rays and smaller sharks, which then steadily devastate populations of animals further down the food chain, like shellfish.
Our commercial fisheries are doomed.
By killing sharks, we unknowingly inflict collateral damage on commercial food fisheries—fisheries that support large human populations around the world. In Tasmania , for instance, the demise of sharks led to the collapse of the spiny lobster industry. In Chesapeake Bay in the United States , excessive shark hunting led to a fall in the population of scallops and clams. And clam chowder went off the menu in eateries across the East Coast of the USA .
Sharks are under severe threat.
According to the latest estimates, over a 100 million sharks are killed each year for their fins. Shark populations are now reduced by 70% in some species and up to 98% in species like tiger sharks, hammerhead sharks, bull sharks and blacktip sharks. Sharks are also slow to recover from over-hunting because they are slow breeding and slow-maturing apex predators.
The greatest threat is from shark fin soup.
The majority of the demand for shark meat is from the shark-fin industry, centered in Asia . Singapore is one of the main consumer countries, along with Mainland China, Hong Kong, Taiwan, Malaysia and Thailand. For every Chinese wedding banquet in Singapore that serves shark fin soup, the world loses another 40-50 sharks.
For the sake of our oceans, give up the soup.
Every time you say no to shark fin soup, you not only save the life of a shark, you help save thousands of marine life. As more of us give up shark fin soup altogether, and encourage still more people to do the same, we will eventually restore shark populations to healthy levels and our oceans to their natural equilibrium. It's a worthwhile goal.
- Mood:
indescribable
At first, it was nice having the space all to myself. I could complete my assignment easily, managed to watch Sex and the city ON TV. :)
But well, after awhile..it gets lonely and too quiet for my liking. There seems to be no one to dote on you, prepare lunch/dinner for you or ask you how you are doing. As my girlfriends are so busy with their own lives, as much as i am with my own.. it made me rethink whether i would ever want the "single, independent and feministic lifestyle.
I'm going out for a movie in town now. I can't possibly bum around at home on my own the whole day.
But hey, situations like these make me a stronger woman all in all.
What a night?
If only my brother just shut his gap. If only people knew the difference between drama and the real important things in life. Focusing on those instead of the small teeny weeny things.
I feel really lost without my grandparents at home. Why cant boys just practice a little maturity sometimes?
FML. And no, i am not having my period soon.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves so intensely attracted to that person.
This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship.
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves. You don’t have to forget someone you love.
What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.
Albert Einstein
Thanks Zaf for writing that note, I could relate to a few of the paragraphs in it.
- Mood:
okay
Snapple every morning keeps me happy.
I wish they had a snapple vending machine in Bukom or near where i live.
Bottles and bottles of it in my refridgerator. Thousands of it.
Ahhh...
www.snapple.com
- Mood:
energetic
As tonight, time stops. I'll enjoy the breeze in the comfort of my bedroom with great music playing in he background.
I would say today was such a fantastic day that left me shagged to the bones but calm in my heart. Spent it with moran because that was the only day left to spend.
In the present, I'd like to declare ignorance a bliss and forgiving sounds like a good idea - every single time. As long as I'm happy at the end of the day. In the future I might expect more, but beimg happy and ignorant is enough for now.
Today was so awesome.
We had dance lessons at the Bukom Dance Hall for an hour. Although i must say, I was a little cagey at first but after awhile, when i didn't think about who was looking, we did pretty ok. 4 more lessons to go! And hopefully another full round if the participation rate is good. I should really organize more stuff for Shell Members. Then they'll reconsider future plans for this beautiful club gem.
I've lost too much weight during Ramadan, and i miss my butt. haha! Well at least i have dance lessons to keep myself fit once i start eating proper again. Although i should really work on not being so shy..
Selamat Hari Raya everyone. Will be back on Sunday. <3
- Mood:
excited
Knowing grandma, I know she's contemplating her life so far. At her age, the only thing that would be in her mind is resolution and death. Everyone will be afraid of it, at some point. Grandma is a cancer survivor and has been cancer free for almost 3 years. The chemo was tough and it made her loose alot of hair and also her self esteem.
You see, I love my grandmother very much. I came home and she was fast asleep with the tv still on. I tried to make minimal noise and crept past her so she wouldnt wake up and dote on me - serving me late dinner and all. I walked over the kitchen and looked at the mess from the family's dinner. I knew grandma would be too tired to wash all those dishes and keep the leftovers... So I took the liberty to do so, just for her.
She hasnt been sleping very well and grandpa said her blood pressure was so high that it might give her a stroke.
Sometimes it makes me cry to think that I may not have much time with my grandparents. I love them very much and whenever possible, I'll try to make them smile.
Grandpa told me once that he grew very depressed watching people he once grew up with pass away one by one. And he got upset about it as it made him rethink his life.
Well, quiet nights like this in my bedroom after a long day always leaves me contemplating life and things I never found the time to think about when I was living a busy, obligated life.
Other than that, I think today was really good. Even school! I am such a nut that my new found friends at school told my girlfriend that I am very funny. Haha.
Have a good long weekend!
- Mood:
bouncy
My personality? My judgements? My brain? My actions? My heart?
As much as I'd like it to be, I don't think it's any of the above because to begin with he doesn't know anything about me.
What a load of bullshit. You're so full of shit.
Since when old(er) men acted that way?
- Mood:
okay
We are still going for that during his next holidays I guess.
And future plans entail in sending my bro to Singapore sport's school after PSLE where he can better his swimming and running skills and hopefully learn from his peers good eating habits.
My only worry is with the influx of all these 'foreign talent' my bro might be overshadowed in the process of his application. Let's just hope the government does not ignore the locals too much.
I've been so busy with school and work and my free times are always spent on catch ups with friends. Suppose I should plan a movie date with brother soon.
We only have each other after all.
